The recent Walk or Cycle & Light a candle for MSA, 3 October 2014, took place for the fourth time at Strand beach, in South Africa. Below is Sonja's speech which she asked Hugh to read on her behalf, adding a few thoughts of his own. But let's start with a picture - things always start well with a great picture I reckon. Here we all are, ready to set off with Sonja on our 4th Walk for MSA - here in South Africa.
2014 - 3 October. 4th MSA Walk for MSA Awareness |
Sonja's speech:
TOGETHER WE CAN
Because my left leg tends to out-perform me when I speak in public, I let my friend, Hugh Holtzhausen, introduce himself and thank him for reading my speech on my behalf.
Hugh says:
Hi everybody and welcome.
I would just like to open with a short prayer.
Dear Lord,
We thank you for this wonderful day and we thank you that you
have brought us all safely together here today.
We thank you for the blessing of Sonja as she ministers her faith and positive attitude to all of us.
We ask that Sonja can lean on you as you guide her to fulfil
the plans you have for her till Your will is done.
We pray this in the name of our saviour Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Every year it is my pleasure to present Sonja’ words to all of
you.
Everytime I read Sonjas’ blog or her speech I choke up so be
prepared for some pauses while I collect myself again. But please do not mistake my emotion for sorrow for Sonja. It is sorrow for you and me that take life and movement so much for granted and who complain about such petty things when compared to what Sonja and all sufferers of M.S.A. and other debilitating diseases have to go through.
Sonja's speech continues:
A warm welcome and thank you to all
who came out to support us today. How we have grown in numbers from our first
humble effort in 2011! Numbers are however of no consequence when measured
against those who have become our friends over the years. Thank you to the McDonalds, the other MSA family here in
the Strand, who honour us with their support every year.
This year we extended the invitation to others
with rare disorders. It thus gives me great pleasure to welcome the following
special guests; Nanette Fourie and her husband Neil Malan. Nanette has Charcot Marie Tooth Syndrome, and this brave lady is one of the artists who
contributed to our project, Art for MSA. I know how difficult it must have been for
you to get here, and therefore
appreciate it that you found a way to roll along with us today. Thank you.
This is the fourth year we are
blessed to reach out and hold hands with others across the globe through this
action on international MSA Day, called; Walk or Cycle & light a Candle for MSA . This affords us an incredible sense
of oneness with patients and their families around the world. The aim today is
to, together with others worldwide, cover the distance around the globe. The
Belgium lady, Ritje Schouppe-Moons, who started this awareness project, has the following quote on her
website;
“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”. Lau Tzu.
I believe all steps taken today will eventually lead, not only to better understanding of such disorders, but eventually to the ultimate goal; a cure for MSA and similar disorders.
“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”. Lau Tzu.
I believe all steps taken today will eventually lead, not only to better understanding of such disorders, but eventually to the ultimate goal; a cure for MSA and similar disorders.
As if being diagnosed with a rare
disease is not enough, those fortunate to have medical insurance soon find
themselves coming up against a wall created by law and misused as a loop hole
medical aids; our rare conditions are not on the list of chronic conditions, and
therefore we cannot get any of our very necessary medication registered as
chronic. This leads to frustration when you most need their support. I believe
in this country I only hope is for all of those with rare disorders to form a
united front to get the law changed. This is the reason I extended today’s
invitation to others with rare conditions.
I have little chance to achieve
anything by myself, but with the united help of my friends, and your friends,
and their friends, who knows what we can achieve!
A recent big birthday, as well
the fact the it is now four years since my diagnosis, caused me to reflect on
the last couple of years to see not only the struggle, but also the many blessings
it brought. I praise and thank the Lord, whose plan is always best.
I thank my Sissi, Karin
Holtzhausen, for organising this event, and my friend Susan Albertyn for all
her help. Laurette, I thank you for recording my life through your beautiful
photography. Thank you to my husband Johnny, my loyal wingman. This disorder is
not mine alone, but has become his and my family’s too.
Thank you to the staff of Casa del Sol for once again hosting our event. Thank you to Johan Cillie of Easy Drive Western Cape for the great job done on my wheelchair accessible vehicle. Without the SissiBissi I wouldn't be here today.
Thank you to the staff of Casa del Sol for once again hosting our event. Thank you to Johan Cillie of Easy Drive Western Cape for the great job done on my wheelchair accessible vehicle. Without the SissiBissi I wouldn't be here today.
There are many friends of friends here today. People whom I’ve
never met. Please come and introduce yourself if you’d like to and tell me what
inspired you to support us today. Don’t hesitate to ask any questions about MSA; I am, through God, more than my physical
failing body.
You are invited to come and light a candle for all patients worldwide
as well as those who have lost their
battle in the past. To make admin easier for the staff here, we’ll send
our tin around for coffee money , and Johnny will settle the account. Karin
also organised some cake, so please help yourself. It us our thank you treat to you.
Thank you, once again, for your support.
Karin continues with blog article, reflecting on the day:
It was, yet again, another good day. Every year we stand amazed at the people that arrive to support Sonja and this year was no exception.
Four years ago, on 20 September 2011 I composed a little email which Sonja and I sent to friends. It began like this:
"Monday, October 3, 2011. 10.00 am – 12.00 pm. On this day it is World MSA Day - Light a Candle / Walk a Mile.
Most of you know that my friend Sonja van Rhyn has a rare and incurable condition called MSA and we have created a page and a blog as part of an awareness campaign.
I'm talking Sonja for a walk along Strand Beach on World MSA day. Would you care to join us?"
Thank you, once again, for your support.
During the walk. More photo's lower down |
Karin continues with blog article, reflecting on the day:
It was, yet again, another good day. Every year we stand amazed at the people that arrive to support Sonja and this year was no exception.
Four years ago, on 20 September 2011 I composed a little email which Sonja and I sent to friends. It began like this:
"Monday, October 3, 2011. 10.00 am – 12.00 pm. On this day it is World MSA Day - Light a Candle / Walk a Mile.
Most of you know that my friend Sonja van Rhyn has a rare and incurable condition called MSA and we have created a page and a blog as part of an awareness campaign.
I'm talking Sonja for a walk along Strand Beach on World MSA day. Would you care to join us?"
We nervously joked with each other - what if nobody came? In the rest of the world MSA Awareness campaigns were huge, well supported and recognized far and wide. In South Africa if you typed in Multiple System Atrophy even google shrugged its shoulders. Perhaps Sonja can remember better than me why we pursued - because at times we felt a little silly waving this unknown flag of awareness. Why should we carry on? Questions and doubt threatened to cloud our enthusiasm. What if we look crazy? What if it's just the two of us? What if it rains? What if it flops? What if, what if, what if? With all these doubts dominating our thoughts, I have no idea why we carried on but I'm certainly glad we did. Anyway - we walked our first walk, about 30 altogether.
We have come a long way since then. Although we were about between 60 and 70 (here in the Strand) this year - we had another group walking in Gauteng as well as another in Kwa-zulu Natal - bringing our numbers to over a 100.
Numbers are important - but in my opinion this is by no means a true reflection number-wise of who have been reached over the past four years and I would not be able to give you a proper figure at all. What I CAN tell you with certainty though, is that we probably have no idea how many hundreds of people have been reached and touched in some way or other, since these humble beginnings of awareness. Sonja's blog post after last year's walk, perhaps has the perfect caption to explain the reason for this growth: "a candle loses nothing by lighting another".
This growth in awareness has not been due to money, publicity or bold advertising. To come back to the likeness of the candle; like one single candle lighting another, which in turn lights another, which then lights another and so on, and eventually shifting from a glimmering glow to continued illumination - slowly but surely - MSA awareness has grown and will continue to grow in South Africa and world wide. So also will our hopes and dreams continue to grow with that illumination to find a cure for Multiple System Atrophy.
Four years later, it's 3rd October once again. We were still riding the wave of the TV program with Kwêla which was aired the week before. In our opinion this has been an absolute highlight for MSA awareness in this country.
Less than a week later, another highlight - our annual walk at Strand beach. Familiar faces, friends, old and new, gathered for this event that had now become a tradition.
We have come a long way since then. Although we were about between 60 and 70 (here in the Strand) this year - we had another group walking in Gauteng as well as another in Kwa-zulu Natal - bringing our numbers to over a 100.
Numbers are important - but in my opinion this is by no means a true reflection number-wise of who have been reached over the past four years and I would not be able to give you a proper figure at all. What I CAN tell you with certainty though, is that we probably have no idea how many hundreds of people have been reached and touched in some way or other, since these humble beginnings of awareness. Sonja's blog post after last year's walk, perhaps has the perfect caption to explain the reason for this growth: "a candle loses nothing by lighting another".
This growth in awareness has not been due to money, publicity or bold advertising. To come back to the likeness of the candle; like one single candle lighting another, which in turn lights another, which then lights another and so on, and eventually shifting from a glimmering glow to continued illumination - slowly but surely - MSA awareness has grown and will continue to grow in South Africa and world wide. So also will our hopes and dreams continue to grow with that illumination to find a cure for Multiple System Atrophy.
Four years later, it's 3rd October once again. We were still riding the wave of the TV program with Kwêla which was aired the week before. In our opinion this has been an absolute highlight for MSA awareness in this country.
Sonja, Karin with Johnny (TV Presenter for Kwêla) and the crew of Homebrew Films during the filming of the program. (Note Lillian peeping into the corner left of photo) :) |
Less than a week later, another highlight - our annual walk at Strand beach. Familiar faces, friends, old and new, gathered for this event that had now become a tradition.
Group 1 all smiles - gathering with Karin (2nd from right kneeling) before setting off |
Braving the strong south-easter - Group 1 set of on the first leg of the walk |
Hurry along! Jogging to catch up with the first group |
Meanwhile, behind the scenes. The staff of Casa del Sol reported for duty earlier than usual to get things ready for us. Ashley, the new manager, proved her worth by attending to all the umpteenth requests that were hurled at her.
"Tables for candles; A table for the cake; 4 Jugs of juices - no make it 6; Coffee - only one coffee machine?; Make tea; Arrange emergency access in case wheelchairs / scooters don't fit through the turnstile glass entrance; Clear emergency access passages; Reserve parking for the SissiBissi; Arrange seating for 80 or 90 people - cozily; and get that darn wind to die down ...."
The second group, including Sonja, arrived. More hugs and smiles as we got together with the first group that now returned to join us on the second leg of the walk. The wind abated a little before we all set off along the Strand beach front - a lot of us sporting red T-shirts which had somehow became our signature colour for this day.
Let's continue with photo's for the rest of the story. Thank you for reading this. By doing so, you too have become part of our dream to keep the candles of hope burning - burning for a cure for MSA.
Please share our blog and our dream with someone today.
Sonja arrived and waited for supporters to arrive - young to not so young |
Sonja meeting new friends |
Gathering of second group before setting off |
Meeting with friends - old and new |
The converted SissiBissi spreads the word whenever we go out |
Group 1 and Group 2 before the second leg of our walk (Johnny kneeling next to Sonja and Susan kneeling next to Karin) |
Friends took turns to wheel Sonja along |
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Sonja, Geraldene and Jacqui behind the palm leaf |
All the people in the photo walking for MSA Awareness |
Attentively listening while Hugh's talking |
Listening |
Loyal supporters |
Listening |
Friend Ermanno sharing a moment with Sonja |
A carer, a companion, a confidante, a husband, a provider - Sonja with her Johnny |
Candles lit for the many MSA friends - past and present. Johnny, Sonja & Karin |
Thank you Wendy for the beautiful cake |
Much later, in the evening, many candles were lit at Sonja's home with a few close friends at her side. The perfect end to a perfect day.
Candles - we lit many candles |
This year two other groups also hosted walks. In Kwazulu Natal MSA patient Kevin Dowling and his family gathered for a walk. In Gauteng Liebet Jooste also walked with family and friends in memory of her late mum, Marie who passed away last year. Well done
Kevin Dowling of KZN with family and friends |
Liebet Jooste (centre black shorts, red top with cheeky tummy peeking out) with family and friends, walking in memory of her mum Marie who passed away last year |
Thank you to friends and family far and wide who shared their photo's of candles they had lit for Sonja and friends with MSA. It means so much. Here are a few.
Candles for MSA |
'Its better to light one candle than to curse the darkness' - Chinese proverb |
'If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it' - Margaret Fuller |
'This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine ...' |
All the darkness you may be experiencing cannot dim the light of a single candle |
'A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle' - James Heller |
“Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness.” Anne Frank |
It's better to light a candle than to curse the darkness - Eleanor Rooseveldt |
Liebet's artwork on the MSA Art Page |
by Karin |
PS Most of the photographs used are by Laurette and myself. However, I have pinched a few from a friend or two to add here. Forgive me for not informing you about this in advance - I have strong a feeling you won't object, but if you do - invite me for coffee so I can convince you anyway.